Charles began by reading the prepared opening message that Baba had read out, known as “My Dear Children.”
Charles said that he has no idea what work Meher Baba was doing at this Sahavas: “It falls under that wonderful heading, ‘Universal Work’” — the spiritual work Baba did to change consciousness of individuals and the world at large. The results unfold and need no explanation. Charles can only speak personally about what the East-West Gathering was like for him, because what else can you talk about but what you saw and felt, the stories that give hints of His fragrance, little clues to who he is as we try to pick up his scent in our minds and hearts? Every moment with Baba is a story that has some meaning for all time. As there are so many moments, Charles decided to focus on just four: the first glance, the last glimpse, and two moments in between.
On October 31, 1962, 144 Westerners arrived in Pune. Baba saw the women and then the men separately. Charles vividly remembers the tremendous anxiety he had about the meeting with Baba. He was deeply concerned that “he wouldn’t be Baba.” It had been four years since Charles had first met Baba in
The men all lined up on the porch to go in to see Baba, so that Charles was unable to catch a glimpse of his Beloved over the heads of the tallest. Finally he reached the threshold and stepped into the room; simultaneously he saw a hand shoot up above the crowd — “and I knew: it is He, it is He.” The hand and the atmosphere in the room were the same as the inner feeling of walking and talking with Baba. “Then I relaxed and was happy the rest of the time. I knew the inner Baba was the same as the outer Baba.”
As each man arrived before Baba, Eruch was there to recall the person, where he was from, what orders Baba had given him — because although Baba was the All-Knowing One, like an ordinary human being he did not know such details in that way. He knew, but he didn’t know. It has been observed that this had the effect of making people feel comfortable and natural with Baba.
When Eruch exclaimed, “Charles, Baba!” Baba gestured the sign made by forming a circle with his index finger and thumb. Every time he saw Charles thereafter, he did that. Then Baba exclaimed, “How you’ve grown!” Charles ran to embrace Baba. “I had the presence of mind to remember what I was going to do. I could not remember how he felt in 1958, so now I was going to remember how it feels. I put my cheek next to his and rubbed it very hard. Fortunately I’d not started shaving yet. Baba had a very close shave. I did the same on the other cheek. I can still feel that skin. . . . I may have missed a greater experience, but I’m so happy I did it.” Baba made a gesture that seemed to ask: What was that?
Charles’s favorite moment that he often recalls was the only time he was ever alone with Baba. “I love the lengths he goes to orchestrate these things.” Charles had learned that the girls wanted to walk to Guru Prasad in the morning to be there early, and asked Mehera’s permission, because if she said they could come early, it would trump whatever Baba had said. So they wisely asked her. Charles was upset that they would get there before him, and he couldn’t ask Mehera, since males over 7 weren’t allowed to see her or speak with her, by Baba’s order.
Normally Charles was reticent and introverted about a lot of things, but now he got the courage and was determined to find a way to go early. He never thought he’d end up asking Baba hims
In the morning when Charles arrived, Guru Prasad was quiet and beautiful. The girls disappeared into the women’s side to be with Mehera and the women mandali. Charles was at the door alone, thinking to be first when the doors opened. But curiosity got to him and he peeked in to see the room where they would be with Baba. He lifted the curtain on the door . . . and there He was, an hour early. “I couldn’t believe my eyes!” Charles felt he was intruding and hoped Baba hadn’t seen him. But a few minutes later, Rano came out saying, “Charles, Baba wants you to say good morning to him.”
Charles entered the room, empty except for Baba seated on the sofa. “I’d never seen him alone before — no garlands, no people, no mandali, no interpreter — all alone, looking at me.” It was a long room, and somehow Charles had to get from the door to Baba. He was very unsteady on his feet but put one foot in front of the other and finally reached him and said, “Good morning, Baba.” Baba looked at Charles, who couldn’t speak another word, nor could Baba speak, of course (since he was silent). “I’d never looked into Baba’s eyes before,” Charles said. “He didn’t give one the opportunity — his eyes were moving rapidly all the time. . . . I have no words for this, but the best I can say is, the feeling was that he is complete in hims
Charles doesn’t know how long he stayed — it seemed like forever. At some point Baba smiled and gestured, “Enough.” There was another hug, and the next thing Charles remembers is being out on the porch.
So that was the first moment.
The second moment:
It was the last morning and they would have to say goodbye to Baba. Purdom said out loud what many were feeling: that they’d never see him again physically. Charles was feeling that he would like to touch Baba’s feet — he’d had this feeling through the whole gathering. Charles thought there would be no opportunity, even though Easterners had done it (although Baba didn’t encourage this). He felt awkward and shy and didn’t want to be intrusive, even though he sat near Baba on the floor and could have done it.
So that last day Charles was thinking about it. Baba said to Purdom: Why are you sad?, and Purdom said because it’s the last day. Baba didn’t like that. During the middle of the morning He took everyone outside because his brother Behram was going to take films. Eruch called, “Charles,” as we were about to go out. Charles didn’t look up, thinking he meant Charles Purdom. Then Eruch repeated, “Charles!” and he saw Eruch and Baba looking at him. “Charles, Baba says will you remove my sandals?” In that moment Charles knew for all time that Baba knows every heart — even though he asks: Where are you from? How did you sleep?
Charles had to lift Baba’s feet and was very careful holding his foot, aware of his hip pain and wanting not to hurt him. He put the sandals aside (Baba had only put them on because he had gone outside).
Then it was time to say farewell — a heart-wrenching moment. Many had held back, hoping to stretch the moment, but there’s nothing you can do to make it last longer; you can only take that last embrace. So Charles went up to receive his embrace. His mother, Jane, was very nervous and upset. Baba told her not to be anxious, and he said to all: I am the Christ. Open your eyes and you will see me as I really am. Then he sat back looking small and helpless.
Baba gestured to Eruch, who said: “Charles, Baba wants to know where are his sandals?” Somehow they’d gotten pushed under the sofa. Charles found them and got them back on Baba’s feet. “I have no memory of how I did that!” Much later, what came to Charles about the sandals was what John the Baptist said of Jesus: I am not fit to unlace his sandals.
Baba got up and made his way out of the room, looking very vulnerable; his suffering was very apparent to Charles. The white figure moved slowly through the crowd without any help, and Charles felt, Yes, he is the Christ. He comes and he breaks hims
So Baba left the room; Charles was bereft. “It’s not as though we thought his physical form was everything,” Charles explained, but one morning Baba said: “Would you rather see me like this or see me as I really am?” He would pick people to answer the question and finally settled on his foil, Anita Vieillard, who always made him laugh. Without missing a beat she said, “Both, Baba.” Baba laughed but added: “You must all long to see me as I really am . . . but this [his body] is very nice.” Baba doesn’t want us to miss him by focusing on his form. Baba told Jane: “This [his body] is not Baba.”
So now he was gone from the room. They’d given up and accepted his final departure. Some people stayed to see the Tomb and other places — Baba arranged the excursion. Then word came to the hotel that Baba was leaving town and would be under the tree in the
It was on November 10, 1962, that they had that final glimpse of his physical form. There was a large crowd, some 1,000 people. Baba was beaming happily. He had said there should be no questions. He asked Charles, “Where is your mother?” It was the first time in the week that Charles even thought about where she was. He replied, “I don’t know, Baba.” At that moment Baba found her in the crowd between
When Baba got into the car, Charles wanted to get close to him one more time. Apparently everyone else had the same thought, so the car couldn’t move. Baba’s face was at the window, smiling at all. Just before the car broke through the crowd, Charles reached the window and said, “Goodbye, Baba.” Baba pointed at him and said, “Be happy.” “Not an easy thing,” Charles observed; “I’m still not able to do it. It’s one of the hardest things he asked of us, to be happy.” Baba made the circle with his thumb and forefinger, a gesture that was never interpreted. What Charles felt when he did it was tremendous acceptance, 100 percent. It was like a challenge to become perfect (that is, whole) in his love. You are called to be who you really are, which is who he is.
Charles ended the talk with Baba’s words given during the gathering. Devotional songs were being sung, and Baba interpreted:
I am that drop that has swallowed the whole ocean. If you were to really love me, maybe one day you will see me as I really am, Love me wholeheartedly and you might one day get a glimpse of my Reality.